The irrelevance of the broken conversation
I was standing among a group at a gathering of communicators, chatting about this and that. During the course of the conversation, a colleague raised an interesting point and the discussion veered off into opinions and analyses of the issue he raised. Later, I found myself in another group, where I brought up the earlier topic of discussion. This group was somewhat less interested; we chatted about it for a few minutes, then digressed into something else. One member of that group, however, apparently brought it up over drinks with his girlfriend, who passed it along in the ladies room where she and some friends were touching up their makeup during a girl’s night out.
Ultimately, the topic raised initially in the first conversation was addressed in many different places. But is it one conversation? And while the word-of-mouth may ultimately lead a lot of people to form some opinions about the issue, is it important for anyone to be able to connect the dots?
The scenario never actually happened to me. I made it up to illustrate a point. On the other hand, it has probably happened to me hundreds of times. Organizations at the heart of such word-of-mouth relays are, of course, interested in what people are saying and how it affects them. They may even want to know if somebody influential is shaping the opinion and spreading it beyond the reach of the average Joe. But knowing exactly who said what to whom and how the word spread? That knowledge just won’t make any difference.
And, I suspect, it won’t make any more of a difference when these word-of-mouth baton handoffs occur online.
Several recent posts have lamented the lack of cohesion to conversations taking place in the ever-fragmenting social media space. Discussions that used to be confined to blogs and message boards are now dispersed through several distinct categories of social media. As Todd Defren put it:
You write a blog post. You tweet about it. It gets posted to your FriendFeed profile. You share it via Facebook. You save it to del.icio.us. Your friends, followers and colleagues comment on the blog. Or they say something nice via Twitter (where a conversation related to your post ensues). Or, they comment directly via your FriendFeed profile. Or they comment on your Facebook post. Or they save the post to their own del.icio.us account and add a comment there.
This, Todd suggests, means the conversation is disjointed and unthreaded. It’s broken. Brian Solis agrees:
As the host of any given conversation, it is almost impossible to expect your community to discover or congregate around your content in any one given place, especially the point of origin. It???s both the challenge and the promise of micromedia and social networks. The comments section of your blog, for example may not truly represent the community response or reaction because it may thrive across other disparate networks and communities, whether you???re aware of it or not.
There is no denying Todd and Brian—and others who have commented on the issue—are right about the fragmentation. There is also no question that the fragmentation makes it difficult to figure out where the conversation started. But that’s also the case offline, and always has been. It may not be fair that I don’t get credit for a conversation I kicked off because someone who read it took the story to a Facebook group instead of confining herself to my blog. But life’s not fair, and life never had the equivalent of a blog, where every conversation was contained in a single place, except maybe group therapy. The fragmentation of social media, then, is an evolution into something more like the real world, with which we must cope the same way we do in the real world.
At the conclusion of his post, Todd says he doesn’t have the answer and wonders who does. I’m not sure there is one. More to the point, I’m not sure there needs to be one. Somebody may create an application or site that somehow manages to piece all the threads together, but to what end?
In a comment on the meme, Daniel Riveong wondered if the concern over the broken conversation is targeting the forrest or the trees. Katie Delahaye Paine (author of the terrific new book, “Measuring Public Relationships”) commented that Daniel rasied an important point. “The point for all measurement is to figure out what the program is doing for the business or the organizational mission (if its a non-profit),” she wrote. “Until people stop worrying about capturing every blog mention, and look instead at what impact it’s having on the business, we???re all wasting our time.”
So the conversation is fragmented. So what else is new?
04/15/08 | 8 Comments | The irrelevance of the broken conversation