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Where I’ve been

By the looks of things, I’ve given up blogging. The only posts for a while have been cross-posts of For Immediate Release show notes. In fact, though, I’ve been wanting to get some items up here, but events have conspired against me.

Last week, I was on the road from Sunday through Thursday, with full days that began early and ended late. I made two half-day presentations (to IABC Phoenix and a joint program from the IABC and PRSA chapters in San Antonio), one full-day presentation and workshop (to the staff at Arizona State University), and had two client meetings. Associated dinners kept me out late.

I figured I’d blog when I got back, but a text message I received from my son just before starting work Thursday morning put an end to that. My 17-year-old daughter, Rachel, had been feeling ill since Sunday afternoon and had been sent home from her second day at school (senior year) on Tuesday. The doctor told her she had the flu. By 1:30 a.m. on Thursday, though, she was screaming in pain. An eight-hour stay at the emergency room, where a CT scan revealed a kidney stone, unusual in someone her age and especially since there is no history of kidney stones on either side of our family. She was given some serious pain medication through an IV and sent home with prescriptions for Vicodin and Cipro, which should have dealt with any infection (and given her immunity from anthrax).

I got home from my trip just as the hard-core IV delivered medication wore off. The Vicodin did about as much good as a Tic-Tac, and at about 1 a.m., we were back in the emergency room, this time for five hours. She received more pain medication and was sent home again. Were were told to just wait for the stone to pass.

By midday, she was screaming again. This time the stay was nine hours. We left at midnight, assured that the stone was moving in the right direction and in fact may have already passed. But the medication wore off and we were back again at 7:30 a.m. Friday for another nine hours. This time, the ER physician called in a urologist who ordered two more CT scans, which revealed that the stone wasn’t a stone; it was just a normal calcification. The pain was coming from a kidney infection that the Cipro wasn’t addressing. Rachel was switched to a different antibiotic and admitted for two days of pain killers, nausea medication, and antibiotics. I stayed with her from morning until around 9 p.m. each day (and each entire visit to the ER except the first one, which occurred when I was still in San Antonio—nothing like knowing your child is is agony and has been taken to ER when you’re in another state). Michele stayed the same hours and then remained overnight; hospital rules permitted only one parent to spend the night and Michele asserted gender privilege. 

Rachel came home this morning feeling better, although still experiencing some pain, nausea, dizziness and overall weakness. But she’s resting in her own bed and I’m back at my own keyboard. Normal blogging resumes now.

12/31/69 | 20 Comments | Where I’ve been

Comments
  • 1.Glad to hear that Rachel is feeling better. What a scare. Here's to a speedy recovery at the Holtz household!

    Andrea Weckerle | September 2006

  • 2.You win. That's the best reason I've heard for not blogging since Colin McKay was busy having cancer treatments.

    My excuse? I didn't want to miss the rerun of House Tuesday night, and then the rest of the week just sort of flew by!

    (Seriously, though, sorry to hear about Rachel's enduring pain. My wife Kelley has been dealing with a weird combination of tendonitis and nerve damage that hasn't been as acute as Rachel's, but has made leading a normal life very difficult for the past month. She talks about intense pain as if it's an annoying houseguest that won't go away.)

    Eric Eggertson | September 2006 | Canada

  • 3.Shel,
    Please pass along my "get well soon" wishes to Rachel. What a horrible way for a family to spend time together, but it appears to be turning out okay. I can probably speak for many of your readers/listeners in saying that we're sending warm, fuzzy thoughts her way, and we understand your absence. Now get back to blogging, we've missed it. ;)

    Luke | September 2006 | Ohio

  • 4.What an ordeal! That must have been horrible to be out of town when it all began.

    Glad to hear that things are going well. The way the story began made my heart sink because many times when people start with, "So, I'm out of town and get a call that my (insert loved one here) is not feeling well," it ends with terrible news.

    Not that it was fun or easy, but I'm glad she's doing better.

    Kevin Behringer | September 2006 | Whitewater, WI

  • 5.Shel, what an awful experience! I hope Rachel continues to improve so she can bounce back to her normal self. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    donna papacosta | September 2006 | Toronto

  • 6.Oops. I seem to have given the wrong Canadian PR blogger a cancer diagnosis. It was Bob Ledrew, who reports he's free and clear now:
    In Case Anyone Cares

    Eric Eggertson | September 2006 | Canada

  • 7.Wow, Shel! So sorry to hear Rachel had to go through all that. Not the best way to start off one's senior year in high school. I hope this clears up fast.

    Sallie Goetsch (rhymes with "sketch") | September 2006 | El Cerrito, CA

  • 8.Good to hear Rachel is doing better. This story struck home for me. I had kidney stones when I was a senior in high school. The pain was horrible (worse than getting hit by a car, which happened two years earlier to me).

    I had so much pain medication, the fingers in my left hand were numb for weeks after I had the stone surgically removed. It wouldn't pass but thankfully I didn't have to deal with any other issues.

    That was when I stopped drinking soda (pop).

    Britt | September 2006

  • 9.Thanks, everybody, for the kind words! Rachel's doing MUCH better -- she got by yesterday on one Motrin, which is one heck of an improvement over the day before, when she needed Dilotid every two hours!

    Shel Holtz | September 2006 | Concord, CA

  • 10.I hope your daughter is feeling better.

    I certainly am beginning to understand the need to blog. On a related, but separate matter, last Thursday's Wall Street Journal ran an interesting story about bloggers who can't take vacations. You may be interested to read Elizabeth Holmes' piece --"No Day at the Beach - Bloggers Struggle With What to Do about Vacation."

    I always tell my employees - family must come first.

    Dan Greenfield | September 2006

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